Lochai. Fetish photographer, professional dominant, expert rigger, sex educator and, as he says, "professional pervert."
I caught up with Lochai at a sex education conference in Chicago a couple of weeks ago and he agreed to sit down and let you, dear Juicy readers, have a rare glimpse into the life of a self-described pro perv. Lochai breaks down some key differences between the fetish/BDSM scene and the vanilla world of dating and sex.
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Learn more about Lochai in cyberspace. Peep his beautiful photography website Kirinawa. Follow him on Twitter. Please feel free to pass this video to friends. Oh and ... you're welcome. ;)
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I love how he talks about the kinkster's habit of naming desires. There's so much power in the naming of a thing, especially since labeling and naming will often be the first step for language, for all communication. And since communication is the cornerstone of all relationships it will manifest differently dependant on the nature of the relationship, be it kinky or not. Nice video.
ReplyDeleteThanks modestgoddess! Yeah I like when he talks about getting to that happy place quicker. I'm happy you like the video. :)
ReplyDeleteVery interesting indeed.
ReplyDeleteThank you for producing a great interview. I'd like to repost the video with credits. xoxo
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